Depending on your current living situation, you may be able to consider moving into your relative\u2019s home, or, if your own home is large enough, have them stay in yours. This decision should be made together with the person in your care after discussing the range of options that are available.<\/p>\n

This is an important decision that both the caregiver and the person in their care should take time to consider. While living with the person in your care has a number of benefits, there are also drawbacks to this solution.<\/p>\n

The Benefits of Living with the Person In Your Care<\/h2>\n

Moving in with the person in your care can often make the caregiving role easier, particularly if you already provide a high level of care and support to this relative. For many caregivers, the benefits of living with the person in their care include the following:<\/p>\n

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• Less time spent travelling between the two residences<\/li>\n
• Increased ability to provide higher levels of care and support to the person in your care<\/li>\n
• Monitoring the person in your care more closely, and with ease which can reduce feelings of stress and worry<\/li>\n
• Building on the relationship with the person in your care to develop a closer connection<\/li>\n
• Greater ability to enhance the quality of life of the person in your care by providing social interaction and activities (this can be as simple as watching the TV together)<\/li>\n
• Allowing the person in your care to remain at home for longer in an environment that is comfortable for them. This can help them to maintain their independence for longer.<\/li>\n
• Reduction of certain expenses through sharing bills, food, etc.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  The Drawbacks of Living with the Person in Your Care<\/h2>\n

  While it brings many benefits, there\u2019s no denying that living with the person you are caring for can be difficult. Some people who have moved in with a family member to support them as they age, have reported the following difficulties:<\/p>\n

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  • A feeling of being ‘on duty’ constantly with very few breaks. As a result, it can feel like life revolves around the caregiving<\/li>\n
  • Blurring of the caregiving boundaries<\/li>\n
  • A loss of sense of independence<\/li>\n
  • In extreme cases, a loss of sense of identity, as you may start to feel defined as a ‘carer’<\/li>\n
  • Feeling pressure as a result of increased expectations. These raised expectations can come from the person you are caring for, as well as from other family members.<\/li>\n
  • A negative impact on your social life, which, over a long period can impact relationships and friendships<\/li>\n
  • Less opportunity to work, travel, etc.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    To Move in or Not: Making the Final Decision<\/h2>\n

    As mentioned above, it\u2019s important to carefully consider your situation before making any decisions. Discuss the benefits for both you and the person in your care, as well as the things you may both need to compromise on:<\/p>\n

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    • Consider all of the living options and support available to your older relative<\/li>\n
    • Communicate openly with the person in your care and discuss the difficulties that they are facing. You can then look for the most ways to assist them.<\/li>\n
    • Talk to other family members and close friends about how they may able to help with the caregiving role. Don\u2019t be afraid to ask them for advice and support.<\/li>\n
    • Outline conditions with the person in your care and other family members for example, the tasks if you need to – e.g. agreeing to community services or regular respite<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      If you do decide to live with the person in your care, remember that this decision is not irreversible; if it\u2019s not working for either of you, you can revisit the decision at any time.<\/p>\n

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